I was not raised in religion and contrary to many people, my
older family members became less interested in religion as they aged. We certainly considered ourselves Jewish, and
I still do now. I think the label would
be “secular Jew” if I wanted to use a label—which I don’t. I don’t like labels at all including agnostic
or atheist. I have attended services at
a synagogue and visit churches for funerals and weddings. I don’t like being a part of anything that
either forces or guilts me into doing things I don’t want to do, and organized
religion clearly falls under that heading.
I am not “anti-religion” per se, I understand how and why
people believe as they do and have no interest in trying to convince someone
otherwise. It would be great if people who
are religious would accord me the same respect.
In big cities it’s easier to blend in and not feel a pull to model your
life along the lines of someone else’s.
If you are a part of a large extended family that includes religious and
cultural customs you’ll probably do as they do.
My thinking is not totally concrete; I have a sense of
spirituality and order in the universe.
I don’t believe in one Supreme Being; mostly I think we just don’t have
enough information to understand the why of things. How can a human being grasp the concept of
infinity? It makes me dizzy to think the
universe is either finite or infinite; I don’t think we have the mental
capacity for that to make sense. I’m
inclined to believe there is a scientific explanation for almost anything we
can conceive but also that there are many things we can’t conceive.
More and more these days I find that religion can be a
destructive force in the world. Not that
this is new information, but I actually feel the waves of hatred in the
air. Everyone feels threatened by some
group somewhere. The main groups, Islam,
Judaism and Christianity, although historically sharing a history and many
beliefs, all feel threatened by each other.
Each group has been persecuted throughout their respective histories as
well. I grew up knowing more Jews than
Christians; now I live in an area where Christianity is an assumption rather
than an option. Who you are and who you
hate is your heritage. Saying “Happy
Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas” is a clear offensive onslaught.
I can’t say I believe in a future or past Messiah, but if I
read the signs I might think the Apocalypse is imminent. Honestly, I have no idea what I should do
about that. Overall, I think I’m a good
person, if that is the deciding factor.
I really don’t understand the continued dialogue about
Christians being under attack, or there being a “war” on Christmas. Every retail establishment across the country
begins their Christmas displays and sales in early October. In the south there are no items for sale
denoting any other religions for holiday celebrations or otherwise. When I want to purchase a menorah or candles
I have to do so on-line. Never mind Islamic
or Hindu symbols, no point in looking.
I know it is what it is and my feelings won’t change
anything. I just feel a need to point
out that we are at risk, as a nation and as humans, when we practice
intolerance for those who believe differently from us. If you define yourself as “good” why not join
that with “person” and not just “Christian”?
