Saturday, April 9, 2022

My Love/Hate Relationship with Exercise

 

 

                                               

 

                                                                     


           

Someone recently said to me “I’d bet you regularly exercised at some time in your life”.  I don’t know what precipitated that statement because I’m neither particularly toned nor muscular, but my first answer was “definitely not”.

The fact is I have a love/hate relationship with exercise.  I know it’s important for health, especially as we age but the idea of feeling compelled to do healthy things definitely ruffles my feathers, rubs me the wrong way and seriously irritates me.  But the conversation caused me to ponder my statement.

I lives in Brooklyn and Manhattan until I was 25.  If you don’t know, walking is a necessary part of living in those boroughs.  I walked to school, walked up stairs in school, walked to my friends’ houses and to shop.  If you took a subway, you walked to and from the station.  When I was older I walked long distances just to see what I could see.  When I was in college, and lived in Manhattan, I sometimes rode my bike from the lower east side to the 59th St. Bridge.  I found it relaxing, on Sundays, to ride around the deserted financial district.  Also at the time, my best friend and I went to public folk dances where we danced for at least two hours.

My first stop in Georgia was at UGA where I found walking was necessary no matter where you parked your car and a good bit of it was uphill.  I never felt a need to join organized exercise classes or venues.  Since living in rural Georgia getting exercise as a part of life is really non-existent, unless you’re a farmer or physical laborer.  So recognizing the “should” factor, I have tried.  I have belonged to 5 different gyms.   3 went out of business and I have not been to the other two for quite some time.  At one particularly energetic time in my life I walked regularly at the YMCA outside track.  It was almost fun when the weather was pleasant (which is about 30 minutes a year in Waycross), but when the weather changes…..

I don’t like regular gyms because they are full of people who really exercise.  Also, it gets boring.  I’ve tried watching a movie on my phone, but by the time I get it working, I’ve lost interest.  The gym has many many TVs situated in front of the bikes, but I haven’t figured out how to change channels and the shows that are on are deadly.  I have also tried Yoga on more than one occasion, Zumba, and Curves.  My favorite was Zumba but alas both those things disappeared with the Pandemic (at least the type of Zumba and Yoga that works for me).  Curves or “exercise for idiots” also closed.  I live too far from the Y now, and walking in my current neighborhood is fraught with peril—dogs (who just might be feral) roam freely, cars speed heedlessly, and Confederate flags proudly displayed. 

I’ll probably try again if the right thing comes along.  Fortunately, as a Senior Citizen, insurance provides membership at no cost (or unfortunately, since I have no compelling reason to use the membership).  Hopefully, I’ll still have a salvageable muscle left to tone.